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The Five Strategies of The Virtues Project help us to live more reverent, purposeful lives, to raise children of integrity and compassion, develop a culture of character in our schools, and inspire excellence and service in the workplace. These strategies build foundations for safe and caring communities.
Language shapes character. The way we speak, and the words we use, have great power to discourage or to inspire. The language of virtues helps us to replace shaming and blaming with personal responsibility and respect. It is a frame of reference for bringing out the best in children and ourselves. It helps us to become the kind of people we want to be.
Recognizing the gifts and life lessons in our daily challenges helps us to cultivate character in ourselves and others. When we have the humility and confidence to learn from our mistakes, every stumbling block becomes a stepping stone.
Virtues-based boundaries focus on respect, restorative justice and reparation to create a climate of peace and safety. Personal boundaries help us to build healthy relationships and protect our time, our energy and our health.
This strategy begins with respect for the dignity of each person and encourages
us to make time for reflection, reverence, and beauty. It is expressing what is
meaningful in our lives by participating in the arts, honoring special life events,
and sharing our stories. Creating Vision Statements increases unity and morale
in our homes, schools and workplaces.
By being deeply present and listening with compassion and detachment, we help
others 'to empty their cup'. This counselling approach empowers others to define
teachable moments and to reflect on their virtues. It supports moral choice,
intimacy in relationships, and peaceful conflict resolution. This process is a
powerful tool for healing grief, anger, and trauma.
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